To love is to be selfish.

It’s the season of love and while everyone is talking about the love they are giving and receiving …

I want to talk about a type of love I have yet to see anyone talk about and that is …

The love for your business.

Yes, I know. That’s not what falentaim is about … but as business owners, this is super important.

Many people start a business doing what they love — whether helping people improve their health … creating superb designs … or building creative furniture.

However, somewhere along the line they find themselves doing work that sucks the joy out of business (and life).

Eventually, what they once loved now becomes a chore. They successfully build a business they hate and live in a prison of their own doing.

I recently saw a comment from a guy who earns $240k talking about how miserable it is … how everything is on his shoulders and how he cannot take more than 2 days off in a row.

He was so emotionally drained that he was contemplating closing down his business totally.

This is the reality for more people than you probably realize, but fret not. Fola is here with a solution.

What is it, you ask?

Be selfish.

By that, I mean build your business around YOU first — put more time into the things that make you thrive, the things that you enjoy doing, the things that make life worth living.

There are no rules in this game.

The only rules are the ones YOU create. Which means YOU can also remove them.

For you to create a business (and quite frankly, a life) you enjoy, you have to be selfish first.

You don’t have to work 15-hour days if you don’t want to …

You don’t have to build a large team, if you don’t want to.

You don’t have to make a gazzilion dollarz, if it’s going to suck the life out of your business.

Ensure you are playing YOUR game and not someone else’s game.

At the end of the day … building something you love requires you to be selfish first. It requires you to create structures that force you to enjoy what you do and live life to the full.

And when (and only when) that is done, can you begin to be selfless. You can then invite other people into that life you have created (including your customers — yes, YOU first … your customers second) and let them enjoy the overflow of the love, joy and happiness you have to offer.

But you have to put YOU first.

I hope this resonates with you — and hopefully has challenged you to rediscover the joy in business and life.

If you would love to grow your business sustainably without increasing the complexity in your life …

Then let’s have a chat.

My method is heavily email-based and in my (obviously biased) opinion that is why it is perfect for those looking to increase sales without sacrificing their joy.

For more articles like this on marketing, sales and copywriting, check out my website: https://ikonmedia.net/

When you get there, you have the option to join my email list.

If you join you will get my free book that shows you how to multiply the amount of revenue you make in your business using your email list.

If you’re interested, use the link above.

Fola.

Sign up TODAY!

Join Fola’s Email List And Get “Your Email List is your Wife” For Free.

Sign up today and get free access to Your Email List Is Your Wife – a powerful guide on 15 unpopular rules for maximizing response, sales, and profit from your emails.

 This book will shift your perspective on email marketing, helping you build a list that’s loyal, engaged, and ready to buy.

Sign up now and grab your free copy!

If you like what you read, then…

Check out our other Blog Posts

The bad side of running 2 businesses that are in the “zero to one” stage (like I am doing), is that you have split focus. Tbh, it’s not very wise and I won’t advise you to do it. It’s better to concentrate all your atten

I learnt a new word recently: Apophenia. It’s the human tendency to see patterns where none exist. Apophenia is one of the many reasons why people are addicted to gambling. They begin to see patterns that are not there and belie

One of my favourite activities to do while I am less busy is to listen to a podcast. On one hand, I love it because it gives you an opportunity to download useful information into your brain (anywhere, any time) instead of doom sc

There’s a lot we can say about greatness, but ultimately, I believe that being great is the goal (or at least, should be the goal). But what exactly is greatness? Truthfully, Idk. No one knows. Only you can define it for yoursel

A couple of years back, a news story came out about how a Belgian man committed suicide partly due to AI’s fault. Here’s what happened: The said man was in his thirties, had two young children and worked as a health researcher

What? No, not that kind of size.  I’m talking about the length of your marketing copy. The “ideal copy length” has been a debate since the dawn of the marketing era. People have argued “long copy vs short copy

Copyright © Ikon Media. All rights reserved.